A memory I have from White Earth, Minnesota, is when I was learning to sew. Beverly St. John was teaching me how to use the sewing machine. We started talking about people who are good at beading and whether she ever wanted to bead. I remember she turned toward me and laughed. That’s when she said, “I was given the gifts I was given. I’m not sad about that. Others can do what I can’t do.” Her words stuck with me throughout the years. They remind me that while we may compare ourselves to others—whether at sewing, beading, or anything else—we must remember that each person has unique gifts. Instead of comparing, it’s important to appreciate what we can create.
I sometimes feel discouraged, questioning if what I’m doing is “enough.” Beverly St. John’s reminder helps me see that every contribution matters within the larger community. What I do at Haskell by creating small crafting events feels “enough” to me because it helps others build community. Each small thing someone does can create positive ripples throughout Indian country. Healing and community building start by creating safe places to share, create, and express oneself. Healing should come from collective effort, not just one person.
